Hi Lovelyricha1, I don't consider myself a psychic but I do think there is information available to me, for whatever reason.Blue, Lovel, is a little naïve, though very loving, caring, a bit rebellious, and wants the excitement of living outside the square.
Red, Smarty, is always battling severe disheartenment, which probably chiefly began when he was about 7. Then at about 12 he had some kind of big fright, probably related to an accident, like he almost broke his leg and the whole incident scared the life out of him. So I'm not sure about later heartbreaks but from these two main events, he tends to live on the edge - he feels he is always one step away from being non-existent, so it makes him a risk taker, because he thinks things could go badly at any moment - like who knows when your number is up, so he has a type of deathwish in a way, not full on, but it lingers around and when he risks he gets a high like a gambler if he survives to see another day. So he gets the rush of fear at pushing boundaries, then the exhilaration of the 'ride', then the almost spiritual martyr type feeling of surviving - but generally he is a scared and disheartened person, but I think he must be good looking because he gets a good response from others.
The drug abuse is likely to continue at least for some time because it takes the edge off the disheartenment and it gives him an excuse - like psychologically, his mind says, this is not happening to me, the real me does not have this life - the real me is somewhere in a safe place with a future in front of them. The real me doesn't need this disenchantment - so the drugs are the proverbial escape and part of the risk taking behaviour.
He is scarred, he could heal but he is very set in his ways and so only seeks options within the sphere of his abused mindset. And as time goes on he will tend to escalate the abuse - so he could tend to become more sexually..., not sure of the word, but its like someone who has no hope and has lost a moral compass so they develop like perversion, a degree of violence, and some hatred. So sexually, involvement with him could start out respectfully and lovingly but would soon denigrate - he is bitter. But it could modify its hard to say. The two could have like fetishes and kinkiness between them that sort of works.
Initially, Lovel might think she knows how to keep the fun exciting side of Smarty but without anything too low and too negative, so she might think she can encourage him to live to how she thinks he can have fun but be reasonably safe and stable. She's not totally misguided, her ways are supportive to him, however, smarty is living on a razor edge and has a level of desperation not far below his surface. He would like to improve his way of living life and can do this for short moments but he has such a habit its like a groove that he readily slumps back into. He's wading through something deep and probably karmically longstanding. It feels like there are events to come that will kind of crack his hard casing and modify him, they are losses coupled with learning curves - partly its just a maturing process. He doesn't believe in himself but eventually it feels like it will be some kind of study/education/skill development that will also change the way he feels about himself and the way he approaches the time he has in life. It could be an engineering/environmental type of focus. It will improve his self value for what he can contribute and also make him feel that the world has something more to it than just the view on it that he once had.
Lovel will eventually turn her gaze from him. She is motivated for something else, she wants a glamourous lifestyle filled with all the current trends and manifestations of popular culture. Lovel has forgotten something though, her traditions. There is an old mother with short hair and missing teeth she is little and soft and nice though had a hell of a voice on her when she wanted to warn someone or alert someone to be careful. Her hair colour is like a dark grey with some lighter grey strands. She is probably not living now. The term that comes with her is old mother and is it only like about 2yrs since this death?. She had about 6 pregnancies/births and either lost 4 or had four, I can't tell which because all were inclusive to her - she thinks she had another 2 early on miscarriages, but she didn't see any evidence of a fetus except for some substance she wasn't sure about. It feels to me she would like for you to remember a particular weaving design that is significant, and also would practice making a bread - for your husband. So I don't think she is saying anything other than don't forget a couple of your traditions - but she understands how exciting all the changes are in the world.
For your pregnancy, and I don't know when that is, but it feels like about 3yrs time, it feels like you will need to watch your support on your back, it feels like your stomach muscles need strengthening prior to pregnancy and that you would need the right bra, and you'll need to do exercises like rolling from side to side or something to keep your back in good shape.
Having said all that, I quite like the composite, Smarty thinks Lovel is totally hot, and Lovel is equally turned on by Smarty. They really resonate together and it does seem that Smarty could mend his ways for Lovel. Lovel could still eventually lose interest though, because she doesn't want to be a case worker for Smarty - she would want him to exemplify someone who has more drive, and go in him - she doesn't want to be tending a lame duck. Smarty could actually gain incentive enough to improve his situation and probably subtle ultimatums would eventually hold sway. The culture/country of Lovel appeals to Smarty too and vice versa for Lovel. They could be long lasting, despite what I said in the synastry.
The longlastingness potential is radiating from the whole chart, so it is a dynamic type of thing, but if I narrow it down to some key stuff - there is the Jupiter-Neptune conj ruling moon in Pisces and Sun-Mars in 7th. Moon is traditional and accidental ruler of the IC/4th and the cusp is in aspect to the Jup-Nep conj. Saturn is happy in the 7th there and ruling the MC/10th. Venus as ASC ruler quite likes where she is but is a little temperamental though is inclined to kow tow to rulership from Mars and is in the stellium with Mars and Sun. So Venus here tends to represent Lovel in a way and Lovel's female influences like her friends etc. Lovel can use her feminine charm and ways to influence Smarty.
Smarty could move mountains to be with her, she can do amazing stuff with creating possibilities, space etc to be available for him.
I like it when moon is in aspect to the ASC which seems to always make it easier to tie domestic and family situations and make them workable and liveable. Smarty does chiefly have to somehow get a type of therapy or something to work out his disheartenment and depression - he may do this through self help.
There seems like there is a degree of financial prosperity between the two though their could be excesses and fluctuations - but possibly over time, money management improves and there is the capacity to take on a business.
Though a longlasting connection, there could be a child, possibly a son, and there could be an estrangement/partial separation between Lovel and Smarty - for 18mths or so at some point but with good prospects to resolve it.
If you want, put up the Davison chart from the astro.com options under composite and I'll see if I modify what I've projected from the composite.